If I love you, I can see you as a separate person, with your own values and thoughts and feelings, and I do not insist that you surrender your identity and conform to an image of what I expect you to be for me.A、I don’t want you to lose hope and then blame me for it.B、I won’t force you to be independent and you can rely on me.C、I don’t expect you to follow my step and become similar to me.D、I won’t push you to lose yourself and become what I like you to be.